My girlfriend and I were dating for over two years. She was my first everything but I wasn’t hers. I gave her everything I could and sacrificed a lot for her. I don’t feel like I got the same in return but I was still very happy because the time we spent together made it all go away. I knew I wanted to marry her and we had several very serious talks about these things. I’m not the most confident person so I would sometimes ask her what she was doing when I wasn’t around. I think she thought it was silly at first but after a while started to question if I trusted her. I did, but I didn’t trust the people she would hang out with. I truly worked on this and became better at controlling my anxiety. Towards the end of the summer I could tell she wasn’t herself, we seemed to be drifting apart. I asked her if we could talk about it and when we did it was just a short convo about how we needed to get back to being “us.” I felt better after the talk. I asked her to promise me that if she ever had a problem with me or was ever unhappy with me, that she would tell me so I could change it. About 2 weeks later she went home for the weekend. She didn’t reply to my texts or calls. I was beginning to get worried. On Sunday she told me she wanted to take a break. I asked her if we could talk or if we could work things out. She wanted no part in either. She said it was a break up for the time being. I asked if she could at least give me a reason behind all this. She never gave me a direct answer; all that was said was that she needed to figure herself out. I asked if there was another boy she wanted to date or had feelings for (this was the one thing that I was afraid of). She told me to stop being so paranoid. So I thought maybe she just needed space. She told me that she didn’t love me the way I loved her. In the past 5 or 6 weeks since then, I have not seen or talked to her. She blocked me on Facebook and unfollowed me on Twitter. Today I was on Twitter and her tweet came across my timeline. It said something about a boy. My anxiety kicked in and I had to see for myself. I went on Facebook and looked her up. Her profile didn’t say anything but his did. I was heart broken. How a relationship that was 2 years long and so serious end so quickly and one person move on so fast? I’m devastated and I still don’t know the reason behind our break up. She hasn’t texted me and the last text I sent her said that I would like to talk things over. I haven’t talked to her or sent anything in weeks. I’m getting counseling every week to help me. I’m sorry for the long story but I hope it sheds light on my situation and I hope someone can help me out. You would be doing me such a favor and I couldn’t thank you enough.